• Too Scared To Date

    From MIKE POWELL@618:250/2 to ROB MCCART on Mon Jan 19 08:32:00 2026
    Something that surprised me is my niece, who has kids and is a teacher
    so sees a lot of kids, says that they are maturing more slowly today
    than in the past.

    With so much online stuff available I'd have thought the opposite
    but she insists it's true. That came up when I mentioned I was

    I wonder if that is all kids, or just male kids? As you mention online,
    as best as I can tell from nieces and nephews, it is more the nieces that
    are interested in that world as tweens/teens. The nephews, and their
    friends, not as much.

    Mike
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  • From Rob Mccart@618:250/1 to MIKE POWELL on Wed Jan 21 08:10:40 2026
    Something that surprised me is my niece, who has kids and is a teacher
    >> so sees a lot of kids, says that they are maturing more slowly today
    >> than in the past.

    I wonder if that is all kids, or just male kids? As you mention online,
    >as best as I can tell from nieces and nephews, it is more the nieces that
    >are interested in that world as tweens/teens. The nephews, and their
    >friends, not as much.

    I know my 11 year old nephew seems a lot more interested in playing
    online games on his Tablet than thinking about girls.

    I guess I didn't have a Tablet to distract me at that age but I was
    certainly starting to think about girls.

    They have always said that girls mature faster than boys, one of the
    reasons they are usually looking for older boys while in their
    early teens. Maybe I wasn't quite typical as I recall being quite
    a bit more popular with the girls when I was 12 to 14 than most of
    the rest of the guys. I sort of thought that was mainly because
    at 12 years old I was already 5'10" so I was taller than most of
    the other guys, many still shorter than most of the girls.

    Of course, by 14 I had long hair (unusual at the time) and was
    wearing Harley T-Shirts and saving up to buy my first motorcycle
    so I may have seemed a little more 'macho' than typical as well..

    The girls do like a 'bad boy'... B)

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  • From MIKE POWELL@618:250/2 to ROB MCCART on Wed Jan 21 17:02:00 2026
    They have always said that girls mature faster than boys, one of the
    reasons they are usually looking for older boys while in their
    early teens. Maybe I wasn't quite typical as I recall being quite
    a bit more popular with the girls when I was 12 to 14 than most of
    the rest of the guys. I sort of thought that was mainly because
    at 12 years old I was already 5'10" so I was taller than most of
    the other guys, many still shorter than most of the girls.

    My recollection of that age, 12-14, was that I was more interested in
    girls than a lot of my male classmates. I was also about as tall as I am
    now and taller than most kids in class. Unfortunately, that did not
    improve my popularity one bit!

    Looking back I wish I had been more like my nephew and not got interested
    in them until I was much older. I wasted a lot of time that could have
    been spent on other, much more worthwhile things.

    As I got older, one can add "...and money" to the list of things wasted.
    ;D

    Mike
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  • From Sean Dennis@618:618/1 to MIKE POWELL on Thu Jan 22 16:44:18 2026
    MIKE POWELL wrote to ROB MCCART <=-

    As I got older, one can add "...and money" to the list of things
    wasted.
    ;D


    Women are indeed expensive. I learned this after two marriages the hard
    way...

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  • From Rob Mccart@618:250/1 to MIKE POWELL on Fri Jan 23 08:11:06 2026
    a bit more popular with the girls when I was 12 to 14 than most of
    >> the rest of the guys. I sort of thought that was mainly because
    >> at 12 years old I was already 5'10" so I was taller than most of
    >> the other guys, many still shorter than most of the girls.

    My recollection of that age, 12-14, was that I was more interested in
    >girls than a lot of my male classmates. I was also about as tall as I am
    >now and taller than most kids in class. Unfortunately, that did not
    >improve my popularity one bit!

    It helps to be good looking too.. Believe me, I know.. B)

    Actually, since I was a serious hockey player at the time, I
    attracted a few girls when the school took us ice skating the
    odd time in winter because I was able to skate backwards and
    'spin' (dance) on ice to the music with them.. B)

    Looking back I wish I had been more like my nephew and not got interested
    >in them until I was much older. I wasted a lot of time that could have
    >been spent on other, much more worthwhile things.

    I lived out in the country so, until old enough to drive, it was
    pretty difficult to spend much time with others outside of school.
    Just the odd party on a weekend or something..

    I remember my closest friend was about 1.5 miles away and I'd
    bike there frequently. Another friend lived almost 5 miles
    away and I recall at times riding to his place in the morning,
    then back home for lunch, and then back to his place later.

    Plus my parents were pretty cheap on allowances so I didn't have
    much to spend until I was able to drive to a job at 16.
    And then the job took up most of the dating time.. Can't win..

    As I got older, one can add "...and money" to the list of things wasted.
    > ;D

    Tell me about it.. B(

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